Monday, September 11, 2006

Complains

Complains

This word must be one that we all face everyday, either by doing it yourself or hearing others doing it. Complain, complain, complain... this is what people will do in times of fustration, tiredness, hatred, or even boredom.

Definitely part of our human nature, the degree of complains each make differs from each other. What i notice is people who are narrow minded, impatience, selfish are ones who does it much more often than those who are patient, and thoughtful. Indeed, it is true that people do not see his own mistakes but others clearly. All complains heard are often about others on why they can't do this, why they didn't do that... but never on why didn't they themselves give a serious thought for others. Worse are people who are not willing to listen to criticism, and claim to be right in every situation they are in.

Of course, i am guilty myself in some areas. I am human afterall, not totally perfect. But at least i guess i make some effort to give this issue a thought and try to make changes to myself. Through these years, how much change do i have in me? Im actually not sure.. guess this will have to come from feedbacks from my peers and closed ones. Improvement is never ending. It is continuous throughout one person's life. That is why we need to keep on learning, learning new things even when we have come near to the end of our lives.

Can this be done? I don't know... Just have to keep trying i gues... Heez...

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