Who is worse? Me, you or they?

Who is worse? Me, you or they?

Over the past few weeks, thru msn or thru some people and incidents, I have come to know some people that are having difficulties, whether is it personal wise, relationship wise or financial wise.

I had examples of friends breaking off with her boyfriend, friends having a tough time with her bf regarding his divorce matters, friends who come from a bad family background, trainee who have a tough time coping with army, patients who cannot stand army life and others.

All this sometimes make me think that actually at the end of it, who is actually worse? who is actually the more sad than the other? And compare to my own family background, and problems, am I more fortunate or worse off?

At the end of it, like what some says, Each of us have our own set of problems and obstacles that we have to face and go through, guess what seperates us is how we faced it and cope with it...

At times when i think it through, the things that my family went through was not of a small matter too... but how did mum and all of us pull through those years? And this is where i really must think that mum is really a strong person indeed. On the outside, she looks petite, weak at times physically, but from the things that she has gone through, she is definitely much stronger than some other women. And she still manages to handle me and my bro well, taught us the right life values that made us what we are today.

Life's tough indeed, and what i usually tell people is that it is also why life's interesting too... Facing everything as it comes, take it to your stride, give it your best shot, never give up, look forward, think positive, let it go, forgive and forget.... can most of us do all this? i doubt so. But if we are able to do most of it, im sure life will be more interesting than it is tough.